Hi Klavold,
I started replying to your second topic, and that question became clear to me when I saw this post :)
To create the menu you are speaking about, go to “Appearance – Menus”, find a box called “Theme Locations” in the left top corner, and click on the drop-down list which says “Main Menu Above Content”. Choose the menu you’ve created (use the right-hand-side box for that) and click “Save”. This feature of WordPress is indeed a tricky one – once there are more than one possible menu location in a theme, one needs to assign menus to one of the locations.
Should you have more questions, do not hesitate to approach me!
Sincerely,
Andrew | Satori